Category Archives: Satan’s lies

Every blog I have written so far I’ve asked my husband to read.  I wouldn’t want to publish anything unless he sees it first, and he’s been kind and supportive about me expressing myself in this way. He has encouraged me, even when it’s hurtful and upsetting for him to read.

I have observed  that living with guilt is an awful thing. It produces nothing good. It manifested itself in ways that were unkind and hurtful. I felt that the friend I once understood, I understood no longer.

But  God is kind, and orchestrated many things to enable him to step back into the light. God was gracious in putting key people in place to love and support him as he confessed all. 

Confessing is hard because we are in Satan’s territory. Satan blatantly shouts his lies about the consequences of  revealing all, and my husband believed those lies and he became despairing. Satan’s  desire is destruction and separation from God. He wants Christian marriages  to be broken and damaged and delights in disharmony and conflict. Because God is kind,  He always makes a way through for the Christian on the wrong path. 

Whatever the consequences that we face because of sin, stepping into the light is always the best way. Whether it’s saying sorry to someone we have been unkind to, or facing and dealing with situations that heavily impact others -the only way for peace, and restored relationship with God is to get out of Satan’s kingdom by confessing all and coming to the cross.We cannot experience God’s love and joy with a known barrier that we are unwilling to deal with. The consequences may seem overwhelming, but to be outside God’s kingdom and care is even worse.

 I really believe that when we are willing to lose all, in order to do the right thing before God, he is gracious and kind. The worst fear for my husband was that he would lose me. In fact, God has given me a huge heart for him. It’s all grace when we are willing to confess all.

For me, Inconsistency is now replaced with consistency. That consistency is filled with kindness and gentleness. I thank God for the change I now see, for relationships that are mending and healing, and for satan’s lies that although believed, were indeed just lies. 

When we are overwhelmed 

“But my grace is sufficient for you, for my power is is made perfect in weakness, so that Christ’s power may rest on me”

(2 Corinthians 12:9)

There are many situations that I feel overwhelmed by. Sometimes it’s just getting up in the morning. Sometimes it’s the thought of having to find work after the trauma of the last months. I feel overwhelmed in the night when I wake up because I have a knot in my stomach and can’t remember why. I have been overwhelmed living in a new place. I’ve struggled in a new church and I am finding it hard to connect with strangers when I feel disconnected and grief stricken.

My heart hurts as my children go on this excruciating journey of working things through, and I have felt pained, and been in agony for them.

I am totally overwhelmed.

If my faith is real, God will eventually see me through. I may feel that my situation won’t right itself, but I know that God is using it to teach and to grow me.

So, I don’t need to fear, but I do need to trust in the one who knows it all. All I can do is take one day at a time and rest in the knowledge that I will get through this because his grace is sufficient and his power is perfect in my weakness.

Satan’s lies

I have done a lot of pondering over these last months about the situation that I have found myself in. There are so many facets of emotion that come to the fore without invitation like an uninvited guest. These emotions barge their way rudely into my thinking and spoil my peace. This affects my relationship with my husband and can be extremely unhelpful and damaging.

I am learning slowly to recognise satan’s lies. In the beginning I swallowed them hook, line and sinker, and before I knew what was happening, Satan was accusing me and making me believe his pernicious untruths. Whatever his lies were, the end result was despair, guilt and blackness. Joy in the Lord was cruelly taken, and I would often feel overwhelmed and riddled with anxiety.

Satan’s lies went something like this:

  • The church will never recover from this.
  • We are now lepers
  • Our children will never recover.
  • Our non – Christian friends will now never come to Christ.
  • The shame will never go away.
  • I will never be happy again.
  • We won’t cope financially.
  • All is lost

How these lies put me in a pit. There was truth in all I believed, but when God’s grace is left out of the equation, condemnation prevails.

Satan loves to leave out grace… He wants us to despair and feel hopeless and this is where I wallowed for quite a while. The black despair that I felt paralysed me.

After wise counsel, I began to recognise Satan’s lies. Bit by bit, I began to understand the subtlety of his accusations. My husband had blown it with devastating consequences but it didn’t end in condemnation. Repentance opens the gates of God’s grace which brings forgiveness, hope and healing. Satan stops at condemnation, God stops with forgiveness and reconciliation

I love the hymn that says:

Satan is wanting to rob us of joy , he wants us to become ineffective for the gospel. And in some ways Satan’s accusations are absolutely right! We are great failures and we can never do anything right. We are guilty and condemned. But that’s where Satan stops.

We need to remind him LOUDLY that Christ has taken that condemnation and it’s nailed to the cross, and when Satan accuses, we need to shout the end of the story to him! He knows it already and hates it… So when we are tempted to believe his lies, we need to shout out that Christ has won and we no longer stand accused! We are guilty, but Christ has taken our punishment. We deserve hell but through Christ we have his forgiveness and hope of heaven.

Yes, my husband has sinned, but God’s plans will not be thwarted. Despite our sin, he is working out his plans and purposes for our good and his glory.

I am so thankful to God for his grace and mercy, and for his many wonderful promises.

I just love this verse in Isaiah 44:22

“I have swept away your offences like a cloud, your sins like the morning mist.

Return to me, For I have redeemed you.”

Satan is the great deceiver and comes to us with great subtlety. If we believe his lies he has won a victory. We need to be alert and on our guard so that we can stand up against him. Ephesians chapter 6 is key. I have a wonderful friend who tells me constantly to “suit up.” We need to put that armour on so that we can stand up against the devil and win the battle !

“Finally be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power.put on the full armour of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on the full armour of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled round your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up the sheild of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the spirit, which is the word of God.”

I need to pray constantly that I will be alert. Like Peter, if I look to myself, I will drown. Praying for God’s help hour by hour.